Jennifer Lopez has insisted she is ''not ashamed'' of her relationship history but isn't too bothered about finding another man because being a mother is her ''number one priority''.

The 'Booty' hitmaker has been married and divorced three times and recently split with her boyfriend Casper Smart following a two-and-a-half year relationship, but she is quite happy spending time with her six-year-old twins Max and Emme rather than a guy.

She told the Daily Mirror newspaper: ''I am just spending time with myself and my kids. I still believe in love, of course, but the thing you think about most is who is good enough to come into the life of me and the kids?''

''You just want the kids to know they are loved, that's the most important thing. Being a mother is my number one priority.''

But the 45-year-old beauty - who has previously been married to Marc Anthony, Cris Judd and Ojani Noa - admits she has learnt plenty of lessons from her failed romances.

She added: ''I have gone from relationship to relationship but, at the end of the day, I am not ashamed of the path I have taken or the lessons I have learned.''