Singer/actress Jennifer Lopez is thrilled husband Marc Anthony has convinced her to cut back on her fast-paced life. The LOVE DON'T COST A THING singer admits her husband of nearly two years has played a big part in her new, more relaxed outlook. She explains, "He makes me slow down and eat lunch, which I used not to do. "We have different philosophies. I've been so disciplined. His process is, 'Chill, don't kill yourself.' "Maybe I've got a martyr thing because I was raised Catholic. "But with him I feel like I should relax and slow down. That's a first for me."