Meg Ryan insists she just can't win when it comes to pleasing her fans, because some want her to be youthful, while the rest wish she would accept her advancing years. The When Harry Met Sally actress, 44, would rather be herself than change to fit a Hollywood ideal, but she knows life as a screen star is not that simple. She says, "Some people get upset if you're perky and you're over 40, and others want you to be that. "I don't think you can win in any way with this image. No one should shrink to fit the idea someone imposes on them. It's not what a human being's about."